Reading Buddies Discussion: “Middlesex” by Jeffrey Eugenides

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Wow, guys. Middlesex. There is so much to discuss in this book — even just the first half — that I hardly know where to begin. How about with a spoiler warning? They’re fair game here, so if you don’t like them, best to skip this post!

For the wrap-up post in two weeks, I’ll focus more on facts and such, but for today, I want to gush a bit, and to share my impressions.

I went into Middlesex knowing more about the novel’s premise than I usually do. No way, though, could I have imagined the intricate story, the entrancing writing, the feeling of destiny unfurling that saturates this novel. I am listening to it on audio, and I am about half way finished (the family just moved to Middlesex). That’s only 9 or so discs, which, really, isn’t that long. But I feel like I’ve spent forever with Cal, known this charismatic, eloquent, intriguing person my whole life.

It’s less like I’m hearing a summary of someone’s life and more like I’ve lived through it all. I am blown away by all the things Jeffrey Eugenides has accomplished in Middlesex. I love Cal’s voice, the interplay between past and present, the exploration of one family’s immigrant experience, the elaborate family history and the way Eugenides has woven the recessive gene’s own lineage into it.

Middlesex by Jeffrey Eugenides (cover)One aspect of Middlesex in particular that fascinates me is Eugenides’ treatment of Detroit. In many ways, the novel feels as much like a history of the city as it does the story of the Stephanides family. From the heyday of the auto manufacturers to the race riots (so far), Eugenides’ vivid portrait of a city I’m used to thinking of as declining has captivated my attention. I’ve heard people talk about how wonderful the descriptions of Detroit are in Middlesex are, but now I feel like I know what they mean. I’ve also been enjoying how the advancing years are reflected in the Stephanides family’s lifestyle: cars, clothing, hobbies, and so forth. It’s been giving me a history lesson in the best sort of way.

I worried at first about how I’d react to Cal knowing so many things he could not possibly have known — precise details about Desdemona and Lefty, for instance, when they were young. It’s rare I can get comfortable with that sort of narration. Turns out in this case I’m not bothered at all. There’s a sort of mythic quality to the story, I think, so that I find myself just accepting Cal’s extensive knowledge as part of the package. At the same time, somewhat paradoxically, perhaps, I keep forgetting I’m reading a novel!

The audiobook is phenomenal. Several bloggers urged me to go the audio route even though I own a print copy of the book, and I am so glad I listened to their advice. Kristoffer Tabori, the narrator, has the pacing and dramatics down pat. His reading style matches Eugenides’ writing to create that rare alchemy in which a main character absolutely leaps off the page. It’s so easy to become completely absorbed. A bonus is that I don’t have to stumble over the foreign names! The only weird thing to me is the music in the recording. I think it was well chosen, and it would not bother me if I could figure out what it signifies! It doesn’t denote chapter or CD breaks but seems to come in the middle of thoughts or stories. My only guess is that Middlesex was on cassette before it made it to CD and that the music corresponds to the end of each side. I know several of you went the audio route this time around as well and am curious to hear how it’s going for you.

I feel that I am rambling. I’ll turn it over to you: if you’re reading or have read Middlesex, what are your thoughts? What would you like to discuss? Let’s converse in the comments!

Thoughts on “Wherever You Go” by Joan Leegant

I received a copy of Wherever You Go by Joan Leegant from the author for review.

About the Book:

Wherever You Go by Joan Leegant (cover)I don’t usually use pre-written summaries, but in this case, the blurb on the back of the book is pretty much what I’d planned to write myself. If you’re extremely spoiler-sensitive, just skip to “My Thoughts” and you’ll get a general sense of the book without specifics!

“Yona Stern has traveled to Jerusalem from New York to make amends with her sister, a stoic mother of five dedicated to the hardline West Bank settlement cause. Mark Greenglass, a gifted Talmud teacher and a former drug dealer saved by religion, has lost his passion and wonders if he’s done with God. Enter Aaron Blinder, an unstable college dropout with a history of failure who finds a home on the radical fringe of Israeli society…Wherever You Go tells the story of three Americans in Israel and the attractions — and dangers — of Jewish religious and political extremism.”

My Thoughts:

As often happens with books that are frequently reviewed over a short period of time, I had read a lot about Wherever You Go before I actually read the novel myself. I knew it told three interwoven stories, that the writing was lovely, and that it explored Jewish faith and politics, but that’s all I knew going in.

The writing is, indeed, lovely. Leegant writes easily yet with a sense of tension and movement behind her lines. She does not allow herself to get stuck on a particular sentence format but skillfully mixes long and short, semicolon-ed and colon-ed, fragmented and complete, so that the novel has a very dynamic, real feel to it. For instance, in just a few carefully chosen sentences on the first page, Leegant effectively evokes an airport arrivals terminal:

“The metallic clanging. The loudspeakers blaring in five languages. The luggage carousel coughed up its half-digested suitcases.

“Yona Stern dragged her valises onto a cart and wheeled it to the line for Passport Control, her brain on automatic after the twelve-hour flight and the surreal change in time — it was still yesterday at home — threading her way through a sea of Hasidim in inky black hats, as if a flock of crows had swooped down and settled on everyone’s heads.”

The dialogue, too, comes across as very realistic, the sort of conversations you can imagine actual people having. The writing is not the focus, yet it is executed in a way that enhances the meat of the novel, evoking precise scenes and building up a nearly tangible atmosphere around the story as it unfolds.

The three stories are interwoven well. Leegant spends enough time with each character for the reader to get a sense of who each is and how s/he has come to be the way s/he is. The main characters are remarkably developed considering that the novel, only just over 250 pages long, also advances three complex story lines and creates a rich setting unfamiliar to many readers.

I had hoped to learn a bit about the situation in Israel, which I did. I had worried this particular theme would be inaccessible to someone without much foreknowledge, but I did not find that to be the case at all. Leegant touches on many facets of an impossibly complex situation and ties each back to its place within the whole. While readers looking for a deeper analysis may be left wanting, those wishing to explore the topic through fiction will most likely be satisfied, as I was.

I can’t put my finger on precisely why, but as I reached the end of the novel, I realized it hadn’t had the emotional impact I’d been anticipating. One story ended perfectly, I thought, but I wanted another to go further. The third, I felt, ended at an awkward point and left me wishing I knew either more or less. Readers who know how attached I get to endings will realize that the fact that this slightly off conclusion didn’t turn me against the book means there was plenty in Wherever You Go to make up for it!

Overall, I enjoyed Wherever You Go by Joan Leegant. Anyone who enjoys well-written fiction about contemporary issues will most likely enjoy it as well, and I think it would make an great book group selection.

Those are my thoughts. Check out Wherever You Go by Joan Leegant on Goodreads or LibraryThing, or read a plethora of other bloggers’ reviews! The author also wrote a guest post focusing on her inspiration for Wherever You Go for In The Next Room that I found very interesting.

GIVEAWAY: “Another Bad-Dog Book” by Joni B. Cole

Another Bad Dog Book by Joni B. Cole (cover)Remember yesterday, when I told you about Another Bad-Dog Book by Joni B. Cole? The book of essays I really enjoyed? Well, the author has kindly offered to send an autographed copy to one Erin Reads reader! The essays in the book touch on a whole variety of topics and range from snarky to sentimental. There’s something in it for everyone.

How do you enter, you ask? Well, for this giveaway, you must live in the US. (Sorry international readers…next time!) If you do, just head over to my review of Another Bad-Dog Book and leave a comment, preferably something to do with the book, but at least expressing your interest in winning a copy and confirming that you live in the US.

If (and only if!) you commented on the review before this giveaway opened (I know who you are!), you can comment on this post for an entry instead.

Giveaway will run from now until Saturday night (EST). I’ll announce the winner as part of my Sunday Salon post.

Good luck!

Thoughts on “Another Bad-Dog Book” by Joni B. Cole

I received a digital copy of Another Bad-Dog Book by Joni B. Cole for review.

About the Book:

Another Bad Dog Book by Joni B. Cole (cover)Contrary to what the title might lead you to believe, this book isn’t actually about dogs. The dog (he’s very cute, by the way) makes a couple of appearances, but he isn’t the main attraction. Instead, Another Bad-Dog Book contains essays on a huge range of topics: parenting, writing, public speaking, living in Vermont, marriage, Facebook, beauty, New Year’s resolutions, American Idol, family, pets, growing up, and more. In essays that range from humorous to reflective to sarcastic, Joni B. Cole skillfully renders snippets of her life, from ordinary to bizarre, for readers to enjoy.

My Thoughts:

My first thought as I began reading Another Bad-Dog Book was, “Hey, Joni B. Cole reminds me of Jen Lancaster.” I’ve only read one of Lancaster’s books, but I enjoyed it well enough, so the comparison was a positive one. But as I read further, I began to realize that, while Cole can be scathingly, snarkily funny like Lancaster, Another Bad-Dog Book also contains a wide variety of other styles. Most pieces have at least a bit of humor — scathing, yes, or situational, or ironical — but several had a very different tone, serious and touching. I’d be smiling one moment and contemplative the next. Throughout the collection, Cole displays her talent for capturing moments both small and large and turning them into captivating pieces of writing.

I had a couple of minor quibbles with Another Bad-Dog Book which arose solely from my own preferences. First, I did sort of miss having a unifying theme to the book. The essays were enjoyable to read and well written, but there were moments when I wanted some overarching story to tie them together. Second, there were a couple of of essays (just a couple!) that came across as a bit grating. These were usually the snarkiest pieces, the ones that seemed a bit insensitive, and I must admit they rubbed me the wrong way. Overall, though, I had no problems with the essays’ content and enjoyed reading about the mix of topics Cole chose to explore and seeing Cole’s different approach to each.

If you enjoy essays, humorous and otherwise, about ordinary life, I would suggest you give Another Bad-Dog Book by Joni B. Cole a try. While every piece in the collection may not be your favorite, there is bound to be something in such a diverse collection for everyone.

Those are my thoughts. Check out Another Bad-Dog Book by Joni B. Cole on Goodreads or LibraryThing, or read other bloggers’ reviews:

Did I miss your review? Please let me know and I’ll add it.

Sunday Salon: The Dreaded TBR

The Sunday Salon.comTBR lists: We all have them. Whether physical or digital or paper, teetering towers or orderly shelves or modest stacks, lists or spreadsheets or tags, readers have to-be-read lists. And I’m guessing there are as many approaches to organizing them as there are TBR lists to be organized.

My List

I have a habit of buying books and then not reading them, saving them for…what, exactly? More than half the books I own are unread, which means I have a massive TBR pile staring me in the face every time I look at my shelves. Scared to know the actual number, I’d never cataloged these books in any meaningful way. The downside? On several occasions I purchased the same book twice; on others, I passed up a good deal on a book I wanted to read because I thought I already owned it.

My "to be read" shelves
A few of my fiction shelves

I did, however, track books I wanted to read but didn’t own. As with most bloggers, I’m guessing, my TBR list grows at a rate proportional to the number of other blogs I read. I started a Google spreadsheet maybe a year ago to track these recommendations. What began as a single sheet soon had to be split up into sheets by genre because, with everything on one page, the spreadsheet took too long to load (!). Which would be fine, if I had any hope of actually getting to all those books any time soon! What I liked about the spreadsheet approach was how much extra data I could add: most notably, who had recommended the book to me and/or where I’d read about the book. But the spreadsheet was hard to reorganize on the fly, and it ended up just being a repository instead of an active reading tool.

Enter Goodreads. Long ago, when I first considered Goodreads for TBR maintenance, I turned it down because of how easy it would be for me to add books willy-nilly. Just the click of a button and BAM! One more book on my neverending, overwhelming list. I finally made the switch to Goodreads when I discovered the private notes field on each book’s record. (Was that always there and I missed it? Or is it a newer feature?) I can now keep track of where I read or heard about a book, just like in a spreadsheet, but in a prettier, easier to reorganize way. I’ve kept myself from over-adding by trying hard to list a source with each book I mark to-read.

At this point, the books I own as well as most of the ones on my old TBR spreadsheet are on Goodreads. The result is a little overwhelming, since I’d previously used Goodreads only for read or currently-reading books. My list grew exponentially overnight! I really enjoy the social aspect of Goodreads (are we friends yet?), having the opportunity for interaction built right into list maintenance. I also love the ease and flexibility allowed by the Goodreads “shelf” system in terms of organization. Though I’m afraid now I’ll go a little tag-crazy — how many tags is too many??

Of course, my new system still has kinks and probably always will, but it seems so far to be the best approach I’ve tried.

Your Turn!

I’d love to hear about your TBR list. Is it physical, paper, digital, or a combination? Does it include the unread books you own, or just the ones you’ve heard about elsewhere? Do you separate TBR books from the ones you’ve already read, or mix them together? How do you sort or tag your TBR list? Any tips or tricks you’d like to share with me? Do tell!